Everyone Are Invited to Be the Fourth Haim Sister.

The Haim sisters performing together
Haim: "Playing music together is where our true purpose will always reside."

"When are you speaking to Haim?" a text arrives. "I wanted to ask if I can join as their fourth member."

There is only a single issue: The sender also desires to be Haim's fourth member. Furthermore, we are far from alone. Multiple famous admirers have also coveted the role.

The evidence suggests a special quality is at play. Sisters Este, Danielle and Alana launched their career playing gigs at local delicatessens with their family. Presently, they stand as multi-time Grammy Award contenders.

Similar to the greatest bands, they're a inseparable trio. Their visuals repeatedly show them striding in harmony down the roads of Los Angeles. During performances, they perform with such boundless joy you find yourself thinking, "I wish to be part of that, too."

"How often on tour that audience members approached us and said, 'Watching you live, I bought a drum kit'," remarks Alana, the most junior of the trio. "That is the biggest honour. That is recognition in itself. Our mission is accomplished if we can inspire young girls to make music."

"Therefore all is invited to be the next part of the family."

Haim performing at a large festival
The group's concert performances have seen them ascend to headliner status of line-ups around Europe.

Grammy Recognition

The group are speaking from a break, where they're recovering after an major tour in promoting their new album, I Quit.

They're presently celebrating the news it's been nominated for Best Rock Album at the Grammy Awards – with Haim the very first all-woman band ever in consideration for the award.

"I tune into the announcements every year, so it kind of feels like The Truman Show when your name is called," notes Alana. "I needed to phone my sisters to say, 'Am I hearing this correctly or am I hallucinating'?"

The significance of the nomination resonates with the band.

"We deliberately set out to make a rock album this time, so it's a significant step," adds Alana. "But we're just appreciative for the pioneers that inspired us."

Personal Turmoil and Humour

The album was born from a phase of transition. All three sisters found themselves single, and the music captures that strange in-between place where you're relieved to be free, but not quite ready to move on.

The lyrics detail departures and goodbyes. The sisters desire love, but not the specific love they've got. You can hear them working out in real life who they are becoming.

"That's a perfect way of putting it, yes," says Danielle. "I Quit is kind of like a slogan. You have to make an effort in shutting out the criticism and saying, 'I don't give what people think'."

Haim album covers and career milestones
The group won a major new artist poll in 2013, and have subsequently scored multiple successful albums.

Refinement of Music

That developed resilience demanded a fresh approach – more organic and immediate than any of the music the band had done before.

For Danielle, who worked on producing the album, that was founded on the percussion.

"Drums are such a specific thing, and I am so passionate about it," she says.

"'Journey of the drum sound' will be the title of our book," jokes Alana. "Our motto is, our albums cannot begin until we find the perfect drum sound."

Haim in the studio working on music
I Quit refines the band's trademark blend, mixing guitar-driven rock with rhythmic beats and catchy pop melodies.

Anecdotes and Collective Laughter

The band's honesty fueled the album's rollout, where the sisters disclosed some of their personal tales.

One man ended things with Este over a health consideration. Alana recalled a story of flying to spend New Year's Eve with someone, only to receive a high five at midnight.

"When you're going through these breakups, you just feel like there's no hope," explains Alana. "So to be able to laugh at those stories and hear others tell you wilder stories, it's incredible."

Haim on stage during their recent tour
The band concluded a six-month tour, but mention they hope to tour again in the coming years.

A Secure Future

One can easily sense a evolution in the band. These days, Haim are more assured of their standing in the music world.

They're festival headliners, with successful albums and an global fan base.

But Haim will consistently be their primary priority.

"We have been playing music since I was a young child," shares Alana. "It's like no other path that we were supposed to do. And I'm really thankful we've made it and we're still going strong."

Brenda Hunter
Brenda Hunter

A tech enthusiast and writer with a passion for exploring emerging technologies and their impact on society.